pilotmike,
Anyone would feel aggreived after such disgraceful behaviour shown to them, behaviour completely unbecoming of a professional pilot, which has no place on a flightdeck.
I wouldn't... No, I really, really wouldn't...
You need to lighten up my friend, it's this attitude to a bit of banter that causes these situations to flame up.
Let's look at it another way, the captain makes a joke that 99.9% of the human species understand is a
joke, then the FO laughs it off and gets him back later. End of scenario. No shouting, no tantrums.
People take themselves way too seriously...