Hi sassy, I don't work in the middle east but I have visited, my question is simple, if your hubby was sat in a nice legacy pilot job in the U.S on a good salary and T&Cs and in your life you and your family was content, would you up sticks and choose your percieved better option of going to live in Dubai ? I could be wrong but I suspect you are making the most of your circumstances, which there is nothing wrong with, we all may be forced into that choice but I just ask for a bit of deep felt honesty on the topic ! With the upmost respect.
Seamster