I think those are very valid concerns. I've nearly finished distance learning with Bristol - Mod 2 exams booked for Feb.
I can think of two reasons for doing distance learning: either you have another job and can't take the time to do a residential course, or you can't afford a residential course. If neither of these applies to you, there is no question as far as I can see - there's no reason why you should do distance learning.
If one of these does apply to you, though, then you don't have much choice. But Pete is right, the instructors at Bristol (and I'm sure the other schools are the same, although I have no personal experience) are superb, and if you call or e-mail with a query you can expect a detailed reply within a day or so. It is possible to buy off-the-shelf study notes to suppliment those that you get on your course, or to get some private tuition, but - without wishing to put off those people who decide to use either of these methods - it really shouldn't be necessary because if you're not getting all the help you need from your school you need to find another school.
Good luck!
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