I helped convex a female Tornado front-seater once and she was fine - and she drank with the boys! I also got stories also about those that were "pushed" through basic and advanced training from mates who trained said ladies - and that "top" decision was a bad military move.
I think, therefore I am right, that despite "top" "PC" directives, the further a lady FJ pilot advanced, the less likely incompetence would pass - especially on a front-line FJ Sqn.
There were exceptions apparently during the early years
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