Structural Failure,
You are definately picking the wrong girls.
My Fiance is currently flying in the Territory while I am still in Sydney, and I fully support his move. I see it as an investment in our joint future, because if he is not happy and always wondering if he could have made it as a pilot, then that will surely affect the rest of our relationship.
Try picking a girl who is mature in more than just her physical appearance. It sometimes helps
[Edited because I forgot my spelling lessons]