Der_Fischmeister
Merry Xmas to you too and all the best for the new year.
Its not that I don't understand what your saying its just unrealistic to expect that a guy who has never met you will refuse a flying position so as not to do you out of a job. This will always be the case so, forget about it, stop encouraging ulcers and stress and enjoy what you get, you will feel better for it.