I don't really care about ETOPS. The engines were never the real trouble lately.
What bothers me more is smoke, fire or severe system inadequacies. That is just as threatening far away from airports and is independent of the number of engines.
Actually it's the whale that has shutdowns while balancing fuel and 4 gens going offline only to come back on ground with a simple reset. It's 4 donkeys don't help, I'd still rather fly over the ponds in a T7....