Say again slowly
I think you are spot when you say " a lot of people being paralysed within bmi recently (not in Baby I have to add)" but i think that is understandable, baby has been an unwanted child by many in bmi for years now so where as people in baby are looking forward to the chance of a future, that hopefully will be with a parent that wants it, bmi staffers meanwhile have no real idea of what awaits and it will probably very different if it under IAG or VS