The D***y M**l didnt even have the decency to respect the families wishes. Dont suppose they will apologise, maybe Stations and Messes should reviewing purchasing the paper.
How do you know they have not respected the family's wishes?
The report indicates that the pilot has been named officially. The Mail would not publish the name (and photo) without being absolutely sure that they could not be sued for falsehood.
If you want to blame somebody, blame whoever it was in the RAF (or wherever) who gave them the name.