I served with a JO stick-waggler who delighted in baiting wives who wore their husbands rank and felt the need to ram it down the throat of those they considered their 'subordinates' On one occasion, having being told that the ladies husband (a directional consultant) 'flew' something fast and pointy, corrected her by stating that her husband was actually 'flown around' by a highly qualified and talented pilot like himself. Off she went with an expression that suggested that she thought she had been insulted somehow, but wasn't absolutely sure...........happy days!