The late wife of a friend was a keen attendee at wives coffee mornings. She used to go with a 'friend' another wife of on the sqn. The 'friend''s OH got promoted. At the next coffee morning our friend went up to her 'friend' but was told to sit elsewhere as that was the sqn ldr wife of's table.
I wish I had thought to have Mrs PN present at her 1369 debrief with Smiling Jim at ISK.