Thanks for all the replies, they have been very helpful. I'm sorry about the formatting in the orignal post, the line breaks didn't seem to go through.
Pontius Navigator - I managed a visit last year. The chaplin(?) there was very helpful and friendly, he opened the book for me on his page and then gave me some time - a very moving visit for me. I made sure they had a decent collection that day.
soddim - I put the just in quotes, it possibly came across not as I meant it.
Thanks again for your time. I really do hope that they continue with that level of support for breavments and it isn't something that will get affected with the defence cuts.