I really should have paid more attention at skool - this all a bit too highbrow for me.
You is what you is. Whenurhappy has a point, Anybody who uses the word 'wog' in general conversation is living in the past.
I am not keen on gay men who mince around in lycra waiting for a reaction to prop up the complaint, but if you do not play the system and get on with it - good luck. We are all human beings.
The military is the same as any walk of life - made up of the community. Get used to it.
TN.