HA, stop for a second and have a think why you cause people so much angst. I'll quote from a psychology book. Hypercompetitiveness is an indiscriminate need to compete and win and to avoid losing at any cost as a means of maintaining or enhancing one's feeling of self-worth. It also includes feeling and thoughts of manipulation, aggressiveness, exploitation, and derogation of others across a myriad of situations. End quote. You need to sit down for a while and have a think about it.