Having just read this thread, I'm really quite shocked by a number of the posts. I'm shocked by the naivety, flippancy and rude tone of a few posts. Comparing what happened today in crewrooms to a schoolgirls common room is, frankly, pathetic.
I know a number of the folks involved today; many were not volunteers and have taken this badly.
And if you (you know who you are) feel like posting, "if you can't take a joke etc", forget it. I've been in the mob for 20 odd years, and I'm presently consoling my non-volunteer partner.
Please have a long hard think before posting what may make a difficult situation worse.