you're missing the point
What I was trying to say is that maybe instead of whining about how bitchy and vindictive "white" western women are, maybe you should be asking yourself what happened to the nice woman you married. If you treat a lady like a lady she'll usually behave like a lady. If you treat her like a servant, doormat, or hole in the mattress... she will eventually turn into a bitch and make you pay for it. It's actually really simple; it's about respect and fairness. But too many men, Western, European, Asian, want their cake and a tasty little cupcake on the side as well. Call it carelessness, absent minded, call it bored ... but eventually enough isn't enough anymore and their eyes start to wander. A wife represents responsibility and duty, but the cupcake represents freedom and fun.
What exactly surprises you about a wife (Western or otherwise) turning into robo-bitch when she feels she's been taken for granted or played for a fool? If the stiletto was on the other foot, you'd do the same.
And just as a hooker is only with you because of your wallet, what on earth makes you think an Asian woman is with you for your looks, your sense of humor or your prowess in bed? She's with you because you're her ticket out of the hell hole she's living in. She's with you because you're a meal ticket. She's smiling and massaging you to get it over with so you'll buy her pretty things and take her nice places, things she'll never have in that hell hole she came from.
Go ahead and fool yourself into thinking Western women are all money-grabbing bitches. Lull yourself to sleep tonight believing Asian women are all about making you happy. You can fool yourself, but you can't fool the world ... not forever.
We make our own heaven and hell ... ALL OF US ... and we reap what we sow. If you want a good marriage, work at it. Play nice, play fair, be honest, be trustworthy, be loving. A wife isn't a doormat, or servant. Don't treat her like one. Treat her like a Goddess and she'll make you her GOD. And after all, isn't that who you think you are anyway?