Carn, where in my post did I suggest it was you? If I thought it was you, would I refer to the poster as "he/she", when you have the word "lad" in your username?
Lay off the paranoia and the victim complex. Neither are necessary, nor endearing, and if anyone on here does have a go at you, it's because you've brought it entirely on yourself (ALPHA ECHO hit the nail on the head above).