If the runway is long enough, ask your instructor to fly down the runway in the flared attitude but with power on to avoid actually landing. This should give you time to take in the 'picture' and peripheral views.
When you do it yourself try mentally once rounding out, to fly as close (low) to the runway as you can without landing. Of course as you slow down you will keep easing back on the controls to raise the nose to stop the sink, until eventually you are so slow you will land in the correct attitude and gently..