Gocatcomplete - yes, that is precisely the essence of my question. I know fullwell that the company is a good place to work. However, I know city slickers who earn shed loads of cash, work with good people in a company that looks after them well. Alongside this they have a terrible work life balance. This later fact is what makes them unhappy. Nothing else matters.
So to go back on thread, can anyone answer my questions in a similar way to that kindly offered by sudden twang?