Knox,
my advice is to be patient. Something will come along that you know will be right for you and your family.
I wouldnt recommend busting a nut, going solo, leaving your loved ones for an adventure unless either they are unimagineably understanding, you need a break from them, or nothing is going to stop you from getting an airline job.
Youre family will need to be fiercly independant if they follow you on your escapade.
If you are more of a personality described in the second paragraph, understand that it may be a month flying a twin, or it may be ten years before you get a look-in to a... well I was going to say, well paid Pilot job...
cheerio