Living in Kenia/ Nairobi is like living in any other SouthEastAsian country-you will have to live in a secured compound, will have to get a driver for your wife......
- Um, Kenya is in East Africa, not SE Asia. Apples and oranges.
- You won't have to live in a secured compound. All good houses have security (guard, electric fence etc) but living in a compound is not a necessity unless you are one of these UN/NGO types who just keeps with their own.
- Unless your wife/partner is unable to drive, you also won't need to get a driver. She will be able to drive herself, just like 99.9% of normal people do around here.