Fair original post.
To Boeing Dreamer:
If I am frustrated because I don't respect my industry or my employer, what kind of a man am I to stay?
A. One who lacks self respect.
What kind of a man am I to stay and complain that the industry is causing my pain?
A. One who lacks self respect and cannot admit it.
If you wish to deflect this underlying truth and say silly stuff like "I have a family to feed so I have to stay!", then there's your payoff right there. So the deal is square. Any further complaint is unfounded.