Tempo, in a ideal world, all would unite, but human nature being what it is, there are those who won't. Be prepared for that. Saying looking after nbr 1, I mean to have a plan, plan for the possibility of escalation, and and a longer time out of the flight deck. Sure up your finances, check out the possibility of some part time work, (if you have some tradie mates, ask what they have, you will lose 5kgs and get paid for it) And you will really appreciate that seat on the flight deck when you return. Our problem was we did not have a plan, because we did not expect what happened, nor can you. Chances are the whole thing will turn into froth and bubble, with both sides giving a bit, and all returning to normal with neither side happy and it will continue to bubble on, that is probably the outcome. I wish it had been ours.