Flying Cesspit
Yes, I did read what you posted, you wrote ....
I guess if the service is just "Radio" or "Information" you could elect to lanbd at your discretion, but it would clearly be irresponsible to do so if you have been advised not to.
A/G and AFIS are not qualified to
advise an a/c commander on any airborne action, so your generalisation that it would be clearly irresponsible to land is based on a false premise.
If you crashed on the subsequent go around, you would receive little sympathy at the board of enquiry for having followed the recommendation of a perosn exceeding the priviliges of their licence.