Thanks for all the advice! Not planning on pooing on him or his nest (of coffee tables) not really my style. I really like him though and I'm sure it'll be ok, I was just interested to see if others had experienced problems. If he has to call me out for a SSH or VDA then I appreciate that's his job and I'll still give him the abuse I give the other crewing officers. Anyway hopefully the company are slightly more professional and as you rightly said there are thousands of crew/flight deck relationships where the company know and the wife doesn't! Thanks again.
