The company, if professional should separate the differences between work and play, and the same for the pair of you. I have dated someone at work and personally never recommend it. When it goes tits up the mess and heart-ace afterward was the worse thing I ever have experienced. It didn`t just go away and there seemed zero escape.
As your other half is in crewing they need to see you as just another crew member and not favour you in anyways, perhaps passing dealings with you to another crewing person. Remembering of course if things do go tits up life for you could be painful with work load type of work etc.
I`m sorry to paint may be a negative view when you are probably happy and I hope it work out well for you.
The company probably won`t care providing a professional relationship and work ethics are maintained. If your given "favours" should we say and other crew member complain then perhaps the company will get involved.
Good luck hope all works out for you!
