I could go on about what speed you should be over the numbers but I think it would be wasted on you.....suffice to say you should not always be at Vref
Correct ,you see I give you some credit knowing gust should be added till touchdown even though you see baffled by someone adding a few kts while you know the boeing a/t restrictions.
the 1kt for the grandma was not a serious comment but obviously you took it seriously..maybe some should chill out...
Concerning CRM...dont know what this came from...
The common sense was directed to me so i thank you for it

,not an attitude problem just being polite