If you are single, then you can make this choice with the knowledge that the only one you are harming (and you will harm yourself) is you. I think it unconscionable that any man would bring his wife and kids to live full time in this environment. They wouldn't really have a choice in the matter. Your kids will suffer the most, as their bodies are growing and adapting....and the effect from some REALLY NASTY SH*T will follow them their whole lives. Don't doubt it.