This is getting silly now.
My last comment on this!
Bose, you are repeatedly defending your comments in a way many find distasteful and accusing people of personal attacks.
IMHO you are well aware of the point people are trying to make, as explained well by blagger, and I would go as far as to say that face to face I do not believe you would have used the words 'get over it' to someone who was emotionally involved, albeit the reason for not doing so may be the knowledge that there would be a high probability of an understandable physical attack in retaliation.
BB