Many years ago an ex MAS skipper advised me to steer clear of 'am's way unless I want to be a subservient arse licker. Of course I wondered why as I thought he was the nicest management captain around; he told me " api dalam serkam ". I begged to differ and I hope I am right.
I learnt of some unpleasnt stuff like his bypassing others on his way to the top.....isn't that what all top people do to rise up? Having said that, the skipper who warned me was right in one prediction; he said he knew am will one day supplant all others to reach the top....................this has borne out!