chchflyboy,
Sorry but there are no community service cards here to fall back on.
Your a big boy you can make up your own mind, I think you will find that they guys here Dan et al are simply trying to give you some advice from those that are here already.
Sift through it disregard the 10% at either end of the for/against scale and work it out. But don't put your head in the sand and do the petculent child, big shiny jet thing.
You are not here you do not know, soome are just trying to inform you.
I hope your girlfriend is going to earn a big income, she sure as hell won't be surviving on yours, but hey I'm sure Toss will take her for a spin in the little red sports car............
Ignorance is not an excuse to bury your head in the sand.