Tom,
I feel for you mate but in order to help you I need to make you understand that you have to help yourself. Unfortunately in this day and age it is unlikely that some one will just help so here is some advice.
Think worse case and get any job so you can survive. Save up some money and go renew your MECIR. Then get out there and find a flying job. Be prepared to leave your comfort zone. Be prepared to travel to anywhere you can find work, Be prepared to wash aircraft, sweep hangar floors, and generally show that you are willing to work. If you are positive in that respect the rest will take care of its self. Good luck.
P.S. To those who start howling me down please note that not anywhere did I suggest that he does this for little or no renumeration.
Groggy