I don't care. I really don't. Who does in this day and age?
It may take a little longer for some others to get used to it though. Give them a break, they aren't bad people, just typical of a largely decent part of the demographic who join up with good traditional values who want to do the right thing for our country. The playing rules have changed and in 15 years this won't be a conversation, but the rules changed mid game and so some will call foul.
I just personally don't care. I'm not attracted to every female servicewoman and use the the same premise to assume that I'm not irresistible to every gay geezer who joins up. And if I were, what a complement.
I don't care.