I don't understand these type of statements either:
Now look at how the market is flooded with desperate cadets paying for type ratings working for breadcrumbs leaving no opportunity anymore for experienced pilots with time on type. Even with >3000 hours on 737's and A320's I couldn't go back to my former employer even if I wanted to, simply because of low timers willing to work for peanuts.
So what is it you want? This is called progress. This is where the world is heading to. There is no way back. You and I were one of these desperate people paying big money to fly. Accept the consequences.
Guys flying for main carriers are very lucky and this will last maybe another generation or two before that ends.
BTW, getting back to the question. As you have a young family, I am guessing in a few years time you'll be looking for stability and not being too long away from them. Now find a job that fits that lifestyle. IMHO that's more important than travel or money.