GtE, I don't think I expressed myself very there - I meant that that style of leadership was not desierable i.e. by trying to demonstrate leadership, there is a danger of being OTT and appear hectoring and bullying.
ANW1988, sorry if you think I insulted you; I can't see any insult just my attempt to humourously suggest that you do not know what you do not know.
Obviously failed on both counts.
Cheers
Whirls