AEOp is the most **** job on earth.
Get a second opinion (non-military) about your eyesight and if it's OK for the civvy world go and get a bank loan for £50K and do a frozen ATPL/IR. You won't regret it.
I wasted 11 years of my life in the back of a smelly Nimrod and am now in the left seat of a 737 and infinitely happier and earning a lot more money.