Hi NG
I suppose you could question how many children anyone should have, but we live in the UK and not China and would like to have two.
This will be our second child and we believe we can give two children a good life so will not plan to go for a third.
That's just our opinion, but since you asked I have furnished you with the answer.
I dont want to 'use' or take advantage of my employer as some kind weevil suggested earlier, I only want to be afforded what I am legally entitled to under law and from internal company policy.
I didnt make the rules, laws or policy, I just want to make sure I follow them to make sure I receive what I am entitled to.
I can understand the view that some will have that woman cant have it all, and there may well be something in that, however, people need to have children, some woman choose to have a career too, the laws and policies we currently have is all I can work with.