First of all, I'm sorry Ronand!
We have a saying that ...when one door closes, others will open to us.
You should be proud of yourself in achieving such level, buddy!
Of course they know how to make a selection, but I agree with Ronad, sometimes (not only in aviation) one person is suficient to ruin our tough work...dealing with people is like that. Doesn't mean EVERY captain or Psychologist are arrogant. There are people all over the spectrum and you hadn't lucky with them on that day.
All the best
