Before looking for a "nice" flight school, let's make sure you can afford one first (since you said you weren't financially all that sound). Ask yourself this:
Can you afford to spend AT LEAST $50,000 USD and then not get a job?
In today's financial climate, that's the reality - and it could cost double that and more!
If the answer is yes, let us know and I'm sure people will be happy to help you out. There's plenty of info on this web site, it can be quite daunting though. Good luck.