But, what do I find? Looking at this forum, I'm beginning to think that I'm doomed to be surrounded by conflict and disdain....
The reason why things sound so depressing here is because the experience of flying is far too damn good in comparison!
Ever since I've learnt to fly I've not looked back. It is an excellent mode of transport. If you've felt depressed after viewing these forums try looking at videos on flying on other sites.
Some of the issues that are discussed in these forums are important. The essence is that pilots want to continue flying safely and economically without limitations on accessing airports and airspace.
The sad thing is that there is a lot of over-regulation, over-taxation (particularly in Europe), and resistance to the activity often perpetuated by individuals on the ground who have absolutely no idea of what flying is all about and how fun it can be.
I would encourage you to keep flying and to really enjoy it.