Just an update for everyone who still has a problem.
Was still unable until yesterday to update the phone.
A new problem arose with the Office 2010, I had to call MS-support. That was a very time consuming event, eventually leading to a remote assisted uninstall of the Office 2010 (will my files and the Outlook data be lost.....
) and having a new version of Office 2010 installed.
Wow....all problems gone, and the Nokia syncs again...
"We will give you a better version, not the wobbly one you have...." what an interesting statement.
And yes, it is a better version, also it looks like the "old" Office 2010, and yes, no file lost.