Sloppy and possible
See my post above yours. You both make intelligent points for me to think about and it has made me think.
I must say that this thread here has forced me to look at things from a diferent point of view once the anger from what happened at work calmed down.
I agree that it would be in no-ones interests to claim racial isues here. I guess in the longrun that it devalues cases where the abhorrent issue of racism occurs.
Also my husband has just come back, heard about what happened today and my reaction, read this and told me not to be "so bloody stupid" and do as the company requires and not to risk the job that we need.
Thank you