Just a word on the flying side at Oxford. Cannot speak for Kiddlington, but Gloucester (modular boys) are much more on the ball. They do not get into the admin side of things, they just seem eager to get you through as quick as possible. I couldn't fault the response from Gloucester when I visited, but the admin people (through whom you must go) where appalling. My reasoning was that I wouldn't be flying with the admin people so I should not let that cloud my judgement. They are pretty good at what they do in Glos, more expensive than most, but comparitive with BFC.
If you would be flying out of Glos then don't dismiss them due to your experience with admin so far.
Good Luck.