Coney
You speak of "those that sit and whinge and whine continually about how bad it supposedly is."
Leaving aside the "one way swimmer" and "God`s gift" brigade (in those specific instances we do have common ground) I would urge you to consider that there has been an almost exponentially increasing level of toxicity in the organisation over about the last decade, on a number of fronts.
The "whingeing and whining" you refer to has to be looked at in that evolutionary context, not as an entrenched attitudinal absolute - which, if not by statement, then at the very least by inference is what seems to be coming through in your posts.
You can get a second opinion on the above from the "multitude of ATCs" from whom you have received PMs. It sure as hell ain`t the workplace it was 10, let alone 15 years ago...and being on quite a good wicket relatively speaking, as you would put it, is far from the complete employment picture.