I'm in the middle of similar USA visa issues for a mate of mine. The short answer is that you have a mountain of problems in front of you. The long answer is at:
https://www.vfs-usa-my.com/ApplnForms/intrasnit.aspx
and the PPRUNE discussion is at:
http://www.pprune.org/archive/index.php/t-247343.html