Bugger,Damn and blast!!
I usually fly into YBBN 3 or 4 times a year VFR, and find the ATC guys (and gals) very friendly and hastle free. usually request runway 14, and stay out of everyone's way. In regard to fuel..after shutting down, I ring the fuel guy and tell him how much I want, and leave the fuel card visible in the windscreen and the thing is fueled up on my return.
It certainly is a far more stress free environment than YBAF and Caboolture!
These new rules REALLY suck. GA Flying has now got more restrictive and DANGEROUS.