Keg, did not mean to offend mate. But I am from the old school, stiff upper lip and all that. I don't mean to upset anybody with that attitude, but being trained in my career by mostly surviving Bomber Command pilots, who taught no emotion, no fear, just do it attitude, and you had no balls if you could not follow their creed. I took that with me thru my whole career. Any mental stuff was not allowed in our time, it mean't you were not suitable, not good enough, and worse still, a coward. Times have changed, but blokes of our era find it difficult to understand all this mental stuff. Which is probably our problem.