There's nothing wrong at all with this Forum.
I have asked many questions here over the last few years and never once got "flamed".
There is a wealth of knowledge and experience on here,just need to tap into it.
I've just asked a question on a topic running here,and I know I've asked about the topic before,it is quite difficult to get a definite answer as the authorities can't make a decision,but I have just had a helpful reply.
I think a lot depends on how the question is posed
Lister