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Complete ATPL theory
Read and have an understanding of Kermodes Mechanics of Flight
Read and have an understanding of Ekalbars Flying high performance singles and twins.
Read and understand the DAY VFR Syllabus
Read and understand the CAOs, CARs and CAAPs
Read and laugh at the pictures in the FAA instructor handbook.
Complete a Cert 4 in Training
Then go to the flight school and spend most of your time learning the practical aspect.
Most of all go somewhere you are going to enjoy doing it and feel comfortable.