I don't usually preach with unsolicited advice, but as you asked nicely -
Some military pilots are better than other military pilots, some civilian pilots are better than other civilian pilots, some civilian pilots are better than some military pilots & some military pilots are better than some civilian pilots.
A good pilot with minimal training will always be a good pilot, & a bad pilot with lots of training will always be a bad pilot. My philosophy - "Recruit for attitude, train for experience".